New York Strip Clubs: City Night Club Encourages Tweens to Act Like Barflys
Part of playing dress-up or barfly or doctor is that the kid interprets these things herself. She is in control, makes up the rules, and pushes the boundaries for herself. When adults market opportunities to, say, stand up in front of a crowd and writhe around a stripper’s pole, the kid is playing by another person’s rules and filling in another person’s blanks. In this case, it’s an adult’s blanks. The kid is behaving like a stripper, or ordering fake rum-and-Cokes, or taking part in a pickle-eating contest with the blessing of a grown-up. The kid knows this and that’s what makes it icky.